The Ideal Bachelorette Party

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A successful bachelorette party depends on how well the activities reflect the bachelorette-hood of the bride-to-be. Not all girls lived their single lives going out and attending parties; and certainly not everyone had more than one boyrfiend.

A party coordinator must research her love life during her single days and determine the best way to make her remember all the happy experiences. Talk to her friends, and plot to bring surprise guests, people who the bride-to-be hasn’t seen in a long time, to the party.

These guests will do a speech or bring a special gift. Some suggestions:

1. A Former Boyfriend – Someone who has moved on, and is happy now (with a wife or a girlfriend of his own or kids!). This guy must have had many fond memories of the bride-to-be.

2. A close female relative – Someone who was the bride-to-be’s confidante during her childhood, besides her mother.

3. A childhood friend who she drifted apart from – Childhood is the best reminisce memory for someone who will undergo a major change in her life. A childhood friend will remind her of that time when she barely knew the word marriage existed.

4. Her bestfriend – Though this person is expected to do a speech and has probably been the source of useful information about the bride-to-be, having her take the mic is always a good idea because she can talk about the bride-to-be like no one else can.

Does all of these seem familiar? Yes, it is like the eighteenth birthday of the bride-to-be! A debutante’s party and a bachelorette party are not as dissimilar as one would think. They both have the same purpose: to sum up the experiences of someone who embarking on a life journey; in this case, marriage.

Sex talk and tips, and naughty games will always be good additions to a bachelorette party. The main focus should be on making the bride-to-be look back on her life, and look forward to her new life as a married woman.

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